I'm sorry you had to go through it as well, but I'm glad I'm not the only one that's disgusted by this twisted logic.

Catholic Church's obsession with shaming people is despicable, but it seems like more and more people walk away from it. And I'm happy to now be living in a country with a majority of people identifying as atheist or agnostic! It's quite a different, and infinitely better, environment from the one of my upbringing.